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Some Say It's OK for Girls to Go Wild

Though teens are expressing their sexuality more than ever, some say its just part of growing up, not cause for alarm
By Sheila Marikar

Your 14-year-old daughter shows up on MySpace in a bikini. Her 13-year-old friend is wearing a miniskirt that might make Britney Spears blush. Time to panic? Not necessarily.

Wearing short-shorts and belly shirts, grinding to hip-hop hits, and posting provocative pictures of themselves on the Internet — the behavior of many teen and tween girls has parents wondering if their daughters are bound for a lifetime of promiscuity and loose morals.

But some psychologists and child-development specialists believe nothing about the teenage drama has really changed. While young women may express their sexuality more overtly than they have in the past, for the most part, their behavior isn't cause for alarm. It's a necessary step in growing up.

Looking Sexy Doesn't Equate With Sexual Activity

Looks can be deceiving. A girl who puts a seductive picture of herself on the Internet for all to see may shudder at the thought of striking the same pose in front of her peers.

"There's a difference between posting a picture of yourself in virtual space, like Myspace or YouTube or Friendster, and posing in provocative clothing in public," said John Broughton, Columbia University professor of psychology and education.

Similarly, sexy clothes do not beget sexual activity.

Read the rest of the story HERE.

Sugasm #62

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them.

This Week’s Picks
Slut (http://lafillemariee.blogspot.com)
“I fucked one man at the request of another, in exactly the way asked for. Then I reported what happened to the one who requested it.”

When Clients Look Like Relatives (http://radicalvixen.com/blog)
“I walked out the door, saw a man standing there and almost puked.”

Low Class Stripper? Classism and society’s view of adult entertainment (http://fullfrontalpolitics.com)
“For a lot of women sex work is a last-ditch option, something we all consider in the back of our minds when we’re growing up; we ask ourselves once or twice, if we needed the money, would we strip?”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Playboy Soldiers (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Where the Wild Things Are (http://kinkyfarmwife.blogspot.com)

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Call It Arm-Twisting (http://www.betweensheets.net)
Discovering Their Sexy Secrets (http://dirtydetails.blogspot.com)
Erotica in 2007 (http://sabrinainstockings.com)
I LIKE being a slut! (http://kyliecallme.com/diary)
Making Choices About Time & Energy….. (http://totalsensuality.blogspot.com)

Sex Work
One of the other things I do is teach (http://thismuse.blogspot.com)

BDSM and Fetish
A date with the (new) Dom (http://plum001.blogspot.com)
Homecoming (http://pandorablake.blogspot.com)
Kiss Goddess Soles and worship (http://www.princessfetishmoneyslave.com)
My first D/S experience with a couple (http://brooklynrake.blogspot.com)
An Orgasm Denial Essay by Ms Ava of www.cockcontrol.com (http://www.orgasmdenialblog.com)
T is for ternion (http://redvelvetropeburn.com)

Sex News, Reviews
iPlug Vibrating Anal Plug Review (http://stilettodiaries.blogspot.com)
My New Toy (http://ellabeecoquette.blogspot.com)
Not About Love - it’s about beauty (http://sexdriver.blogspot.com)
Up and coming babes for 2007 (http://pornhater.com)
You’re All Invited to My Most Erotic Birthday Yet! (http://www.taratainton.com)

Sex Advice
How To Shave My Pussy (http://www.model-chat.com)
Reader Q&A: The Man Who Couldn’t Blow His Load (http://smutandsteff.com)

Sex and Politics
Why are baby girls in India Dying (http://deliciously-naughty.typepad.com)

NSFW Pics (& videos)
Every good student should have a world map… (http://mapgirls.blogspot.com)
Happy HNT - Boxing bondage (http://darkside-journey.blogspot.com)
I Like My Cock (http://edinerotica.blogspot.com)
New Year (http://hothardcock.blogspot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Bisexual by Proxy 2 (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
Confluence of Hedonists #4 (http://www.easilyaroused.co.uk)
Displayed (http://pick-up-pieces.blogspot.com)
I Want You Horny-The Conclusion (http://watchingmywife.blogspot.com)
Lead Me Not Into Temptation (http://sexandtheivy.com)
Love Thy Neighbor (http://eroticjournals.blogspot.com)
Me, Her, and Him 4 (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
Melanie And I (http://mandyseroticlife.blogspot.com)
More Dirty Little Girl (http://cumslutandsupercock.blogspot.com)
New Year’s Eve (http://sugarbutch.blogspot.com)
No Sex in the Champagne Room? (http://sexdemon.blogspot.com)
Our First Foursome (http://hommeandfemme.blogspot.com)
Red (http://ellesnovellas.blogspot.com)
Sex Cam Adventures (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
Take Me (http://nocloudnine.blogspot.com)
That Look (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)

Video: Masturbation Education

Masturbation Education, Weeds style.

Video: The Search for the Clitoris - GVTV

Ladies... this post is not meant for you. I hope that you already know where your clitoris is and you are already taking full advantage of that knowledge.

Guys, this video is for you. Yes you. Watch it because you might learn a thing or two even if you do already know where the magic button is.

This is another informative video brought to you from the good people at Good Vibrations.






You can find the rest of the episodes on YouTube, gvtv.blip.tv or iTunes.

Not About Love - it's about beauty

Sites on the interweb multiply exponentially and most are filled with crap. How many are filled with beauty? The beauty of nature. The beauty of the female body. The beauty of the female body in nature... you get the point. Not about Love is all about beauty. The site itself is gorgeous in its simplicity, a TGP of sorts but not filled with smut. This is an aggregator of high class
photography, erotic galleries and yes,tasteful pornography.
It is updated constantly and definitely worth a look.

www.notaboutlove.com

Pole-dancing kit pulled from toy site

A pole-dancing kit was removed from the toys and games section of a British Web site after complaints from parents.

The Tesco Direct site advertised the kit with the words, "Unleash the sex kitten inside," the Daily Mail reported.

The kit included a chrome pole and a DVD demonstrating suggestive dance moves, the newspaper said.

Dr. Adrian Rogers of the group Family Focus said the kit would "destroy children's lives".

Tesco agreed to remove the product from the Toy section of the site, but said it will remain on sale as a Fitness Accessory. The company denied the pole dancing kit was sexually oriented and said it was clearly marked for "adult use," the newspaper said.

Some pharmacies locking up their condoms

If you wanted to buy condoms 30 years ago, you had to bear the embarrassment of asking a pharmacist to fetch them from beneath the counter.

Now with thieves wiping out the entire stock of prophylactics in some stores, more retailers are putting them back out of reach - and, in some cases, are even locking them up.

Many convenience stores in Milwaukee have again placed condoms behind the counter to keep shoplifters from pocketing them, and some major pharmacy chains have placed them in locked glass cases along with other frequently stolen goods such as costly replacement razor blades. Read More

Video: Sexy Pole Dancer

Like I said... everybody loves strippers. To that I raise a drink and salute Iris, the stripper so determined to hone her craft that she has installed a practice pole in the middle of her living room.

Very talented indeed.

Video: Sex Advice from Burlesque Dancers

Everybody loves strippers! And by "everybody", I mean "horny men". Does everybody love Burlesque dancers? Well, burlesque dancers are different than strippers. Burlesque has roots in comedy so burlesque dancers have a sense of humor while strippers have coke habits and arrest records (let the flaming begin).

In this installment of Nerve's original video series, hosted by Charlene Chartrand, we find out answers to those common questions like:

When is the right time for Ass-to-Mouth?
What's the deal with the clitoris?
Are there any genital nicknames that should not be used?



Nerve is an online magazine about sex, relationships and culture.
Nerve's Mission Statement:
"Nerve is a fearless and intelligent magazine about sex, relationships and pop culture. With cliché-shattering personal essays, interviews, reporting and criticism, we explore the predominant concerns of young men and women with peerless honesty and wit. Our mission is to apply the highest editorial standards of the print magazine world with the best online innovation to deliver (1) an editorial voice that doesn't exist anywhere else, online or offline, and (2) an interactive online experience that harnesses the creativity of our exceptionally clever readership."

Find the rest of the Sex Advice From.. series HERE

Lingerie Babes

Wait, not so fast. The gift giving doesn't stop after the Christmas season. Remember that Valentine's Day is right around the corner for those of us with significant others in our lives. Yes, it will soon be that time. Lingerie is a guy's favorite gift to give (other than cock). Teddies, bustiers, and of course lace boy shorts... I love them all. Now that i have given all the guys a plausible reason to look at beautiful women in next to nothing, head over to Phun.org to see hot babes in sexy lingerie.

Video: Lovebites - Oral Sex Episode

How many of us guys have ever gotten the "tap on the head"? Uh, probably most of us at one time or another. 69? How about 68 and I owe you one? Well in this Lovebites clip Katie offers a little advice as Max fails to deliver the cunnilingus pleasure.




Lovebites on MySpace
Lovebites Official Website

You can also find the Podcast in the iTunes store.

Sugasm #61

The best of this weeks blogs by the bloggers who blog them.

This Week’s Picks
Me, Her, and Him 3 (http://erotischism.blogspot.com)
“But as sexually satisfied as he kept Kendall — or as satisfied as one man could — she was yearning for another kind of action.”

Polyamory vs. Polyfuckery (http://perverselypoly.blogspot.com)
“I admire Rachel’s altruism, despite her saying it’s a practical matter of what it takes to get her wet.”

A is for Abandon (http://redvelvetropeburn.com)
“The hands pressed into her lower back and she wanted to ask Him if He had felt them but her orgasm overtook her and she lost all conscious thought for a few moments.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
The Best of SugarBank 2006 (http://sugarbank.com)

Editors’ Choice
Lovely Contradictions (http://pick-up-pieces.blogspot.com)

BDSM and Fetish
B is for Bondage (http://lafillemariee.blogspot.com)
The Big Tease (Part Four) (http://orgasmdenialstories.blogspot.com)
Happy Holidays (http://masterenigma.blogspot.com)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
2006 Dark Odyssey post roundup (http://viviane212.blogspot.com)
The Dirty Mistress (http://dirtylittlecockslut.blogspot.com)
Making Myself Come (http://plum001.blogspot.com)
A Night at the Opera, continued. (http://junohenry.wordpress.com)
The Night Turned to Morning (http://www.betweensheets.net)
The Return of Lost Love http://eroticjournals.blogspot.com
The Road to Hell (http://sexandtheivy.com)
Simply Ambrosial (http://randisexadpoetry.blogspot.com)

NSFW Pics
Hardcore for the Holidays: Photo and Video (http://www.taratainton.com)

Sex News & Reviews
Adult Marketing, 2007 Style (http://fullfrontalpolitics.com)
Half-Nekkid Tribute (http://www.tarasnaughtyshop.com)
Welcome to “Smack Yourself” by Sensei and Pet (http://sexblogwelcome.blogspot.com)

Sexy Humor
All hail the Mighty Vagina! A request for Submissions (http://sexdriver.blogspot.com)
Santa’s coming but Sadie isn’t (http://www.sadiedark69.blogspot.com)

Podnography: Sex + Podcasting

Sam Sugar. Ever heard of him? He's the man behind Sugasm,Sugarbank.com, Sugarclick.com, and SugarJoy.com.

Well, Podnography is yet another one of his creations and it is definitely worth checking out. In it, he chronicles all things erotic, exotic and newsworthy... call it the CNN of the sex world but much more entertaining and with European wit and lots of
fleshy bits. The first 15 issues were audio podcasts but 16 and 17 are video podcasts that can be played in iTunes. Don't look in the iTunes podcast directory though, I don't think they are listed... possibly because of the sexual content.

Go to Podnography right now and download the latest podcast! In the meantime you can watch a very short excerpt from #17. The whole issue is over an hour long but here's a taste of it. Happy viewing!

Video: Sex Advice from Pornographers

Nerve's original video series, hosted by Charlene Chartrand has her talking to porn purveyors Candida Royal, Audacia Ray and Joe Gallant about such topics as ass-to-mouth scenes, gaping assholes and what is taboo. Funny? Yes. Groundbreaking? Not really... but funny nonetheless.



Nerve is an online magazine about sex, relationships and culture.
Nerve's Mission Statement:
"Nerve is a fearless and intelligent magazine about sex, relationships and pop culture. With cliché-shattering personal essays, interviews, reporting and criticism, we explore the predominant concerns of young men and women with peerless honesty and wit. Our mission is to apply the highest editorial standards of the print magazine world with the best online innovation to deliver (1) an editorial voice that doesn't exist anywhere else, online or offline, and (2) an interactive online experience that harnesses the creativity of our exceptionally clever readership."

Find the rest of the Sex Advice From.. series HERE

Video: This is NOT Proper Use of the Anus

We here at Sex Driver DO recommend sexual exploration with sex toys and, if you are so inclined, the anus can provide sexual pleasure as well. However, by "exploration" we do NOT mean "holding large fireworks with your asshole". That said, this may not have been fun for this poor chap... but it's got to be the funniest video i've seen this year...all 2 days of it, so far.